The average age for the onset of perimenopause is 46, and the average age for menopause is 51. It’s not too early for you to think about perimenopause though, as some women begin as early as their mid-30s. Early symptoms are different for each woman, so if I were you I’d go to your gynecologist, have a pelvic exam and ask them to check your thyroid and hormone levels for a baseline, and then check them a month or two later to see if they’re stable. Good luck – I’m in perimenopause too and I know how rough it can be!

i think its to early for menopause. besides that , menopause does not hurt. ( i’m there)
i think you need to see a dr. that sounds so painful and not normal.