Question by : Why does it seem only single moms like nice guys?
Yes, I’ve figured it out now that younger women like bad boys and older women like nice guys. Younger women are stupid enough to think the bad boys are going to be providers and they’ll be able to ride around town on the bad boys’ Harley showing them off to their girlfriends making them jealous.
Just yesterday, I turned down a woman who expressed interest in me. She’s a single mother with two kids. First of all, I’m not keen on raising someone else’s kids or being a second stringer in the relationship, and I sure as hell don’t want to deal with her ex-husband when he gets out of prison.
I tried hooking up with her 5 years ago, but she gave me that whole speech “Well you’re a really nice guy, but I’m just not that into you.” Then she got involved with some dipshit with a criminal record a mile long thinking she could fix him. I told her he was no good for her, but then she didn’t listen. So now she wants me now that she can’t find another man! Yeah!
Now she wants me because she doesn’t have a male role model for kids, and her boyfriend is an assclown. I told her, “Sorry, Honey! You had your chance and you blew it.” I know that sounds calloused, but I think I just gave legitimate reasons not to get involved with her. I’m not crazy about kids, so I’m actually doing her a favor.
Am I just being cynical or do nice guys really always finish last? It seems logic doesn’t tie into female psychology in our society until about the age of 35. Unfortunately, by that time, they’ve already been divorced and dropped out a couple of kids. There must be something about postpartum or pre-menopause that finally triggers all the neurotransmitters to the rational parts of their brains. Then there are those like my older sister who’s 40 and never get it. I keep wondering how many sticks of dynamite I’ll have to blast into her ears before her thick head finally clears up.
So why is it only single moms are attracted to me when I’m thinking with the bigger head? I imagine their stupidity is how they wound up being single moms in the first place. Do I need to travel to the Far East and find a traditional Oriental girl? Do I need to go out and start robbing liquor stores and get a tattoo saying, “Born to Lose” across my chest? Or will I have to wait until I’m 50 until all the women in my dating pool have grown kids?
Best answer:
Answer by Slinky
They are easier to con and by then she is desperate, tired of being broke, over worked/stressed and is willing to settle for second best.
Women are all the same, the difference on a biological level is a few pounds here or there and some color. Women are either social conformists which means they all act the same or complete nut jobs.
So unless you like getting used and abused avoid women. A dog is a better companion and conversationalist than a woman. As far as the sex goes it’s totally over rated especially after a couple of kids, a divorce, a day at work and a million other excuses to explain why she is not in the mood.
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